... I know that I told you I didn't think you should take anymore memories, but... I think I was wrong. Even if it's hard for you, and even if there's a lot of pain along the way.... that doesn't mean that it's right for you to be forced to miss the important things if you want to keep reaching for them.
No, you weren't entirely wrong. There are more than a few negatives to consider. Remembering the past is important to me, but the past can be painful. And... learning about a life you can't go back to even more so.
That's true. However... even if you can't go back to them, and even if it hurts.... there's value in the people and the things that we've loved and lost. At least--I'd like to believe so.
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I've been thinking about what several people have told me, as well as... what I need to do in order to go forward without regrets.
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... Your past is important to you, though, isn't it?
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That's why... I haven't really decided yet.
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... I know that I told you I didn't think you should take anymore memories, but... I think I was wrong. Even if it's hard for you, and even if there's a lot of pain along the way.... that doesn't mean that it's right for you to be forced to miss the important things if you want to keep reaching for them.
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No, you weren't entirely wrong. There are more than a few negatives to consider. Remembering the past is important to me, but the past can be painful. And... learning about a life you can't go back to even more so.
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That's why I've just been - trapped by indecision, I guess.
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Do you think you'll regret it? If you never know?
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Yes, I do.
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Then I think you should live and know yourself fully--without regrets. We'll be here for whatever that might mean.